Jul 20 2014

Why is my vagina is numb when I have sex with my partner?

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If you cannot orgasm when you masturbate, you have to learn how to masturbate to orgasm first. It is a very important part of your sexual education.

Your partner is not responsible for your orgasm. Only you can have an orgasm, and you are responsible for getting it. Your partner is however responsible to help you get there, and you are responsible to tell him or her how to get you there. For this reason it is important that you know how to orgasm by yourself so that you can help him to get you there..

Your vagina is not your primary sex organ. Your clitoris is your primary sex organ (also see “How do I orgasm?”). Your vagina is mostly without any nerve endings. Especially past the entrance. So pumping in and out of your vagina will not help.

This is easy to test. Get on top of him, or use the doggy position and rub your clitoris like you do when you masturbate while he is having sex with you. You are almost guaranteed to have an orgasm with him inside you. And even though your vagina is not your primary sex organ, having an orgasm with him deep inside you fells fantastic. You will feel fantastic, and he will feel like superman. Just put your self conciousmess aside and try it. Just once. If it does not work, no harm can come. But if it works, you will have your first orgasm during intercourse. What can you lose by trying it?

Once you satisfied your curiosity and find out that you can orgasm with him inside you, you can work on more natural ways of doing this.

When he is inside you, tilt your pelvis to make your clitoris touch his body. Then rub and grind on him, or rock around on him. Move forwards and backwards, or in small circles while rubbing your clitoris on him. There is absolutely nothing that says sex should be the usual up/down, in/out affair. Grinding and rubbing is as good for him as for you. And once you orgasm and he still wants to, he can pump into you until he is done. The easiest position for you to start with is you on top. Here you can control your angle, tempo and movements. You can see his face and he can see your glorious orgasm face. It is very intimate to share your orgasm with him like this. You can also use his hans on your body and breasts to increase your pleasure and experience. Once you can orgasm consistently, you can try other positions and technique.

It is important that you get your orgasm when you want one. It is ok to sometimes not want one and have sex just for the sake of having sex. But to protect your relationship, it is important to orgasm during sex when you want to.


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